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1 Minute Motivator: Do you have an objection?

“Nothing will ever be attempted if all possible objections must first be overcome” – Samuel Johnson

Why?

When I have enough money in the bank, I’ll start my new business venture. When my children are grown-up, I’ll go to college and take my exams. When I’m feeling more content in my head, I’ll start that awesome new diet! Pure fiction it might be but you know that in your own way, you do this. Maybe you set yourself conditions which must be met before proceeding. Or do you have an idea but won’t action it until you have checked with all your family members and friends?

If you know you struggle with making a start, today’s one minute motivator is certainly for you. If you’re awesome at making excuses, this is also for you. You have been warned ;)

What?

The simple answer is to stop! Stop making excuses. Stop setting criteria that must be met. Decide what you want to do one day and do it now instead. If you need some practical ‘how-to’ advice, remember to read the final paragraph.

How?

If you’re a a serial procrastinator, take a little time to work out why. What’s really stopping you from starting a family, opening your own business, taking your dream holiday or quitting your job to care for your children? We’ve talked before about the importance of starting and how to choose short term achievable goals. Feel free to go back and refresh your memory but don’t take too long about it ;) All done? Great, now get out of here and put those steps in place. Make a start right now!

9 Responses to 1 Minute Motivator: Do you have an objection?
  1. Paul
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    March 24, 2010 | 11:42 am

    Eleanor,

    The only thing stopping me doing and achieving anything is the obstacle inside my own head. My first task before starting out is to ‘beat it’ then get moving with what I have to do. It’s working okay so far.

    Thanks for sharing your thoughts and such a great 1 minute motivator.

    Regards

    Paul
    .-= Paul´s last blog ..The cycle of the four seasons =-.

    • Eleanor
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      March 24, 2010 | 7:05 pm

      Hi Paul,
      Thanks for your comments. You’re right of course. These battles are won and lost inside our heads. Glad to hear you’re winning today :)
      El

  2. Karen
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    March 24, 2010 | 5:54 pm

    Hi Eleanor,

    I think that we are masters at making excuses for ourselves. Even when we want to do something, we’ll come up with a perfectly logical excuse not to do it. The trick is to overcome this resistence and to do it anyways. Conditions will never be perfect – so you might as well do it now when you have the time. No one knows what the future will bring and you may lose the amazing opportunity for change today.

    Karen

    • Eleanor
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      March 24, 2010 | 7:07 pm

      Thanks Karen. You’re so right. It reminds me of that favourite quote of mine from Kung Foo Panda about today being a gift. I know that if I fully embraced that truth each day I would enjoy each day much more and certainly get a lot more done too :)

  3. Tim Brownson
    March 29, 2010 | 2:28 pm

    Hey, you just summed up 75% of my clients.

    Sometimes there are genuine reasons. I want a beach house in Monterrey, Ca, but I need a few million to buy that ;-)

    We spent 5 years trying to work out when moving to the US was right. Then we realized it was now otherwise we’d never do it. That was 4 years ago and delighted we got our act together.

    It’s sad that some people never make the move, but such is life I guess.
    .-= Tim Brownson´s last blog ..7 Myths of Self-Development Exposed =-.

    • Eleanor
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      March 29, 2010 | 10:23 pm

      Would it be fair to say that without this procrastination, a percentage of your 75% wouldn’t be your clients? If so, then for no good reason other than to keep you in bread and jam, it’s probably great that not everyone takes action as they should. ;)

      It’s like when a couple talk about starting a family. We personally decided that there was no perfect time so since we were both keen, we might as well crack on with it. So we did and seven years later, our lives are chaos ;)

  4. Anne Cole
    April 12, 2011 | 7:17 pm

    You’re right. If you’re planning to do something, then go ahead and do it. You might be out of time if you only planned for it without doing it immediately.

    Anne’s blog: Anne Cole Swimwear
    Anne Cole´s last [type] ..Anne Cole Swimwear

  5. Rachel Whitefield
    April 17, 2011 | 10:20 pm

    I’m definitely guilty about this, I always make excuses and somehow loves the process of cramming because it makes me think and react faster. One culprit I always blame is SLEEP, instead of working I almost always end up sleeping. Hah! I perhaps should try red bull to keep me awake ;D

    I’ll work on this though “Stop making excuses”, it takes time, but anyone can overcome anything if your mind is up to it.

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  6. Kate Wilson
    April 21, 2011 | 3:16 am

    My mom always told me that, If you can do it right now, then do it and not tomorrow. Time is gold, so never waste it.

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