When was the last time your offered to give your cat a bath? Or, have you ever cleaned your partner’s teeth? What about your postman? When did you last tell him to take the day off, you’ll finish his rounds? Unless you happen to be a vet, a dentist or your postman’s boss, it’s pretty unlikely that you made a point of attempting to do any of these things recently. Why would you? These are not things that you’ve had any practice doing nor are they likely to be skills you’ll need over the next few years. Why then do we seem to find it so very easy to